A git morgan to you, "C". I hope this finds you well. I've been thinking about our conversation from yesterday, regarding being mechazik each other in the heilegah inyan of shalom bayis, and controlling one's ka'as (anger) and came up with several ideas: 1) creation of this 'blog,' to record our thoughts, successes and not-so-successes in pursuing these admirable goals; 2) the adoption of a "k'nas" system, whereby we contribute an agreed upon amount to a special fund for our wives each time we do or say something that is not promoting the cause of shalom in the home (I figure by this time next year, we'll both be taking our wives on a cruise--alright, I'll speak for myself!); and 3) learning specific sugyos that deal with these inyanim (e.g., ka'as and SB), beginning with Nedarim 22a-b.